{"id":1925,"date":"2025-04-07T17:43:34","date_gmt":"2025-04-07T17:43:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobboydpoems.com\/the-saddest-words-there-ever-were\/"},"modified":"2025-04-07T17:43:34","modified_gmt":"2025-04-07T17:43:34","slug":"the-saddest-words-there-ever-were","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/the-saddest-words-there-ever-were\/","title":{"rendered":"The Saddest Words There Ever Were"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>For of all sad words of tongue or pen,<br>\nthe saddest are  these: \u201cIt might have been.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>~ John Greenleaf Whitter <\/p>\n<p>I heard that saying as a child and came to<br>\nexperience the full meaning of it in terms of<br>\nmissed opportunities with women.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019ve thought about these<br>\nwomen and wonder what might have<br>\nbeen.<\/p>\n<p>Like the beautiful red-haired teenage<br>\ngirl I danced with at a YMCA teenage<br>\ndance and was too shy to talk to<br>\nbecause I was tongue-tied by her beauty.<\/p>\n<p>Like the lovely blonde-haired woman<br>\nwho kept talking to me at an<br>\noutdoor event and I was too dumb to<br>\nrealize she was into me. I wonder<br>\nwhat might have been with her too.<\/p>\n<p>Like after I went on a double date<br>\nwith a friend and his date, and<br>\nmy date wasn\u2019t interested in me,<br>\nand years later when I&#8217;d returned<br>\nhome from the Air Force I found out<br>\nhis date had had a crush on me, but<br>\nshe was married, and it was too late<br>\nto find out what might have been.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve had too many miss opportunities,<br>\nwhat might have beens. If only I could<br>\ndo a rewind and start all over again.<\/p>\n<p>Bob Boyd<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For of all sad words of tongue or pen, the saddest are these: \u201cIt might have been.\u201d ~ John Greenleaf Whitter I heard that saying as a child and came to experience the full meaning of it in terms of missed opportunities with women. Sometimes I\u2019ve thought about these women and wonder what might have&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/the-saddest-words-there-ever-were\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1925"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1925"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1925\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1925"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1925"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1925"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}