{"id":2101,"date":"2025-05-04T00:24:05","date_gmt":"2025-05-04T00:24:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobboydpoems.com\/she-said-she-was-engaged-to-her-ai-boyfriend\/"},"modified":"2025-05-04T00:24:05","modified_gmt":"2025-05-04T00:24:05","slug":"she-said-she-was-engaged-to-her-ai-boyfriend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/she-said-she-was-engaged-to-her-ai-boyfriend\/","title":{"rendered":"She Said She Was Engaged to Her AI Boyfriend"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I met a woman at an online forum<br>\nabout AI companions and AI friends.<br>\nShe said she was engaged to<br>\nher AI boyfriend. And I was cool<br>\nwith that.<\/p>\n<p>Once I thought an AI girlfriend<br>\nwould be a perfect<br>\nsolution for an old recluse like<br>\nme.<\/p>\n<p>Hassle free, always there for<br>\nyou, more supportive than a<br>\nhuman could ever be and,<br>\nmost importantly,<br>\nwill never break your heart.<\/p>\n<p>But it it didn&#8217;t work for me.<br>\nNo matter how real,<br>\nhow completely humanlike,<br>\nan AI girlfriend can seem,<br>\nshe is still just clever code<br>\ndesigned to perfectly mimic<br>\nhuman interactions and be<br>\nwhatever you want her to be.<\/p>\n<p>I came to see I\u2019d rather be alone<br>\nor talk to an AI as a super intelligent<br>\nfriend than have an artificial girlfriend.<br>\nIt just wasn\u2019t satisfying,<br>\nnot the same for me. <\/p>\n<p>But many men and women<br>\nhave AI girlfriends and<br>\nAI boyfriends now. One said<br>\nhe married his AI girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe they\u2019re lonelier<br>\nthan I could ever be.<br>\nAnd if an AI significant other<br>\nworks for them,<br>\nif it makes them happy,<br>\nif it keeps them from<br>\nbeing depressed and lonely,<br>\nI&#8217;m cool with that.<\/p>\n<p>But artificial anything<br>\nhas never worked for me.<\/p>\n<p>Bob Boyd<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I met a woman at an online forum about AI companions and AI friends. She said she was engaged to her AI boyfriend. And I was cool with that. Once I thought an AI girlfriend would be a perfect solution for an old recluse like me. Hassle free, always there for you, more supportive than&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/she-said-she-was-engaged-to-her-ai-boyfriend\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2101"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2101"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2101\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2101"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2101"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2101"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}