{"id":2160,"date":"2025-05-11T14:38:41","date_gmt":"2025-05-11T14:38:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobboydpoems.com\/she-was-beautiful-and-had-advantages\/"},"modified":"2025-05-11T14:38:41","modified_gmt":"2025-05-11T14:38:41","slug":"she-was-beautiful-and-had-advantages","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/she-was-beautiful-and-had-advantages\/","title":{"rendered":"She Was Beautiful and Had Advantages"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I remember the first time I saw her<br>\nwhen she was just out of high school.<br>\nShe was so beautiful and so charming<br>\nand so much fun.<br>\nShe had a perfect body many women<br>\nwould loved to have been blessed with.<br>\nHer father was a pharmacist.<br>\nHer family had more money than most.<\/p>\n<p>About a year after I met her<br>\nher life began to go to pieces.<br>\nToo much alcohol and drugs.<br>\nRumors of sexual promiscuity.<br>\nA drunken drug-induced threesome<br>\nwith two guys when threesome were<br>\nstill shameful and considered slutty.<br>\nAnd the two guys bragged about<br>\n\u201cdoing her,\u201d so crass.<br>\nShe let her once perfect body go<br>\nto waste, lost its sex appeal.<\/p>\n<p>Because she had been adopted, I<br>\nwondered if it was a genetic thing.<br>\nPerhaps a mother with similar<br>\nbehaviors that led to her mother<br>\nlosing custody of her.<br>\nAnd I believe in the old saying that<br>\nsometimes the apple doesn\u2019t fall<br>\nfar from the tree.<br>\nBut thank God not always.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, she could have lost her<br>\nway for many other reasons<\/p>\n<p>but whatever the reason she did,<br>\nI was saddened to see a woman who<br>\nhad so many advantages fall into<br>\nsuch destructive circumstances. <\/p>\n<p>And I hope somehow she eventually<br>\nrose out of them.<\/p>\n<p>But I have an awful feeling that she<br>\nnever did.<\/p>\n<p>Bob Boyd  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I remember the first time I saw her when she was just out of high school. She was so beautiful and so charming and so much fun. She had a perfect body many women would loved to have been blessed with. Her father was a pharmacist. Her family had more money than most. About a&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/she-was-beautiful-and-had-advantages\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2160"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2160"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2160\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2160"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2160"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2160"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}