{"id":2706,"date":"2025-09-21T13:07:00","date_gmt":"2025-09-21T13:07:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobboydpoems.com\/the-impulse-for-a-mate-is-so-strong\/"},"modified":"2025-09-21T13:07:00","modified_gmt":"2025-09-21T13:07:00","slug":"the-impulse-for-a-mate-is-so-strong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/2025\/09\/21\/the-impulse-for-a-mate-is-so-strong\/","title":{"rendered":"The Impulse for a Mate Is So Strong"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Even though I\u2019ve lived for 80 years,<br \/>\nsometimes I feel the desire for a mate.<br \/>\nI would have thought my age would have<br \/>\nobliterated that feeling, that need,<br \/>\nfor a female companion in my elderly life.<br \/>\nDespite the many reasons my mind<br \/>\ncan find why being with a woman<br \/>\nwould be too risky a proposition<br \/>\nwith the possibility of a painful outcome,<br \/>\nsometimes my mind reneges and<br \/>\nthat desire, that need, resurfaces.<br \/>\nI don\u2019t act upon it. In a way I don\u2019t<br \/>\ncare. In a bigger way I see the many<br \/>\ndisadvantages and suppress those<br \/>\nunwanted feelings that now<br \/>\nI wish I\u2019d never been born with.<\/p>\n<p>Bob Boyd<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Even though I\u2019ve lived for 80 years, sometimes I feel the desire for a mate. I would have thought my age would have obliterated that feeling, that need, for a female companion in my elderly life. Despite the many reasons my mind can find why being with a woman would be too risky a proposition&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/2025\/09\/21\/the-impulse-for-a-mate-is-so-strong\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2706","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-pm"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2706","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2706"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2706\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2706"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2706"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobwriting.com\/poems\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2706"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}