It has its perks:
No compromising.
No disappointing relationships
when the ecstasy of falling
in love has tapered off.
No walking on eggs.
No broken hearts.
No arguments and hurtful words.
No cheating or deceitful behavior.
Total peace of mind with no ripples in
your serenity.
Free and self determined to the max.
Worthwhile tradeoffs for a life without love
despite the occasional agonies,
and the longings.
That arise on the surface of your serenity
because of the inborn need
for a significant someone
to fill your life with affection and love.
Bob Boyd